My mother's birthday is finally over. I was able to deal with the immaturity throughout the day, the 'everything revolves around me' mentality was typical too, but the callous way in which she addressed me as i sat on the kitchen floor bleeding, was too much for me. I snapped. Sure, maybe i could've been a little more courteous, perhaps i shouldn't have raised my voice as i did, but to be someone's mom and not show any concern? She was never my ideal for what a mom should be; she's rude, childish, selfish, stubborn, lords her status over me as if we were in preschool and she was older than me, but goddamnit, she treats me without respect while she is beyond reproach. I can understand that she married too young, was robbed of her youth by a variety of factors and spent the last 15 years raising me and my brother on her own, but does that give her the right to do the same to me? must i now share a similar fate as her, with my childhood robbed, forced to the wheel of responsibility and adulthood so that she might reclaim her time? Should i be understanding and reasonable while she is irrational and self-absorbed? I know i sound ungrateful, she did give birth to me and raised my sorry ass for however long it was before she decided she had enough. But why can't she grow up already? Even a little? And if she isn't willing to, at least acknowledge the fact that maybe i have? I realize one day I'm going to miss her too much for words, and my under appreciation now will haunt me until my dying days, but I have nothing left, nowhere to vent, no shoulder to cry on, no bottomless glass to drown my sorrows in. But I have you, a blank page, an empty space, an anonymous audience.